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NILESH & JESS

Wedding Day Information

Saturday, 4th October 2025

Scroll down for all the information you will need.

And maybe a little bit more...

WELCOME

Our Story
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If we haven't already said it (or said it enough) you matter to us hugely. In fact, we love you a lot. And we're deeply grateful for the roles you've been playing in shaping our journeys to this point.  We're looking forward to being with you in person soon to help us celebrate.

The Internet may have helped us find each other, but our story doesn't belong in social media or online, we prefer real gatherings. We are so looking forward to sharing our love, laughter, anecdotes and memories with you all in person on the banks of the River Thames, where our romance blossomed.

What we will share for now is this: our individual stories started nearly half a century ago on different continents. And then in London, our joint story began with a simple exchange. It was hardly poetry (or was it?) but it sparked a cosmos of other and continuing moments of joy, excitement, grace and gratitude.

Jess: "I like your face."

Nilesh: "You look nice."

Jess: "I am nice."

Somehow that was enough for us to agree to meet up. We fell in love pretty much instantly, and we have been falling upwards ever since.

That first exchange of smiling openness to possibility is what we aim to take with us into marriage, blended family life, and all our chapters ahead.  

And we can't wait to step into that with you all beside us.

Thank you!   

AND PLEASE RSVP IMMEDIATELY :-D

Schedule

KEY TIMINGS

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PLEASE DOUBLE CHECK YOUR EMAIL INVITATION FOR YOUR ARRIVAL TIME

AND RSVP ACCORDINGLY

 

1pm

Arrival for Seated Lunch

Family and Out-of-Towners (OOTs)

4pm

Arrival for Ceremony

After the Ceremony, we will flow into an evening of street-food-style eating and grazing, cake... and of course dancing

1am

Carriages and Ubers

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Venue

VENUE & GETTING THERE

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Trinity Buoy Wharf

London E14 0JW

 

https://www.trinitybuoywharf.com/visit

@TrinityBuoyWharf

East London home to arts & culture. Home to London's only lighthouse.

Nearest Station:
Canning Town (Jubilee Line & DLR)

followed by a 15 min walk 

East India Station (DLR)

followed by a 15 minute walk

Bus Routes:

D3, SL4, N550

Leamouth Road

followerd by a 10 minute walk

By Car and Parking:

There is no parking, but very easy Uber and Taxi drop off/pickup area

Cast

CAST & CREW (JON TO HIDE)

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Jess

Bride

Person wearing makeup

Rando 2

Art Director

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Nilesh

Groom

Confident Curvy Woman

Rando 3

Art Director

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Adam

Celeb

Pensive Coffee Time

Rando 4

Art Director

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Rando 1

Art Director

Elegant older woman portrait

Rando 1

Art Director

Info

FAQs

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Dress Code

There is no code! Wear whatever gives you joy and puts you in a mood to celebrate. No ties (unless they give you joy). Bear in mind we will be by the river, which can be windy. Celebrations will be indoors and outdoors, weather permitting, and there is a cloakroom.

(Jess is donning a dress at least for a while, and Nilesh will wear a custom shewarni. The kids are still deciding on their outfits.)

Accommodation & Guest Transport

As it's a one-day London wedding, with infinite options to suit your preferences and budgets, we haven't organised collective accommodation and transport. However please email us if you'd like help with suggestions.

Food

Daytime food will be vegetarian and vegan. Evening food will be a mix of non-vegetarian, vegetarian and vegan. There will be gluten-free options, and kids will have the same spread as grown-ups.

 

Lovingly provided by @BoulevardEvents and @GharaStreetFood

We will need any guest essential dietary notes

by Thursday, 4th September

Children

It's frustrating, but we are unable to accommodate all the young humans in our community, as much as we would like to. If your kids are not included in the invitation, and you would like them to join, message us directly ASAP. We will let you know what's possible, but best to keep your sitters booked. If you would definitely like to attend without children, please also let us know!

Dogs

We are not permitted any dogs at the wedding (gasp!) so we will be toasting them for sure! We would be overjoyed if your four-legged friends could be part of our celebrations by leaving a video or photo message for us in our Guestbook.

Guestbook & Wedding Day Photos

Instead of a hardcopy guestbook, we invite you to leave messages, pictures, photos and videos - including those you take on the day - in our online Guestbook, managed securely by @GuestPix. Only we will be able to download content, and we won't share any of it on social media or public platforms. We ask you to do the same, and not share any wedding day photos on social media.

 

The Guestbook is open now, and will close shortly after our wedding day.

https://my.guestpix.com/guest/access/118831/2ohxvKcu

Wedding Gifts

We have a lot of life 'stuff'and we don't need much else.


Some of you are makers of beautiful things, so should you feel like gifting us something you've created, we would be honoured. Please don't bring any items to the wedding venue though, after is fine.

If you would like to contribute in another way, money is always helpful. We are saving for a few things: eg a new sofa, family adventure (s), and a next home, whenever that may be, will need things.

So we've set up a Prezola saving pot here (apologies that there are fees, but hopefully not more than a postage fee equivalent)

IGNORE THE UPSELLING ATTEMPTS BY THE SITE!

Thank you so much x

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Any other questions?

medlingpatel@gmail.com

Photos

PHOTOS

(c) Nilesh & Jess 2025

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